Worry-Free Play Dates

For most children play dates are an important part of their social schedule. Children usually start attending play dates when they are as young as three or four. Some children like for their parents to stay with them and others are at ease on their own. Whether you are hosting the play date or your child is a guest at a friend’s home, there are several things you should think about to create a secure and fun environment for playtime.

Set up activities that your guest will enjoy – Children on their first play date might be shy or nervous. Have a conversation with your guest’s parents prior to the play date to discuss what activities interest her. Suggest she bring along one or two of her favorite toys to make her more comfortable.

Ask and inform about all allergies and “off-limit foods” – When dropping your child off, let the host know if she has any allergies. (Be sure you leave an EpiPen® if your child is allergic to bee stings). Inform the host of your child’s usual appetite and routine. If your child is younger than five years of age, remind your host that your child should not be given any foods that are considered choking hazards (example: grapes and nuts). In addition, if you don’t usually give your child sweets in the afternoon, ask your host to refrain from handing out snacks to avoid a sugar high at pick up time. Every parent has different rules and might not be aware of how certain foods affect different children.

Travel safely – If your plans include a trip to the park, mall, bowling alley or other venue, be sure your guest’s car seat is properly installed in your car. As every car seat is different, ask the child’s parent to help secure it in your car. It’s also wise to ask for a recent photo of the child to keep with you in case she is lost while you are out.

Pack the essentials – If the play date will include riding toys, like bikes and scooters, be sure to bring along a helmet. Swim parties should always be carefully supervised and all children should wear flotation devices.
Don’t be afraid to ask about guns in the home - According to the Safe Kids Campaign, most children are killed or kill other children while playing with handguns found in their homes or the homes of family or friends. Don’t be embarrassed or too polite to ask if the host has a gun in the home.