It’s Time for a Play Date!
With the cold weather blowing in, your children’s play dates will surely be moving inside. Now’s a great time to learn important tips for planning and preparing exciting play dates for your children and their friends. It’s also important to conduct a walk-through around your house for potentially hazardous products that could land in the wrong hands during playtime. We hope you find these tips helpful and wish you a happy and healthy fall season!
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Worry-Free Play Dates
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For most children play dates are an important part of their social schedule. Children usually start attending play dates when they are as young as three or four. Some children like for their parents to stay with them and others are at ease on their own. Whether you are hosting the play date or your child is a guest at a friend’s home, there are several things you should think about to create a secure and fun environment for playtime.
Set up activities that your guest will enjoy – Children on their first play date might be shy or nervous. Have a conversation with your guest’s parents prior to the play date to discuss what activities interest her. Suggest she bring along one or two of her favorite toys to make her more comfortable.
Ask and inform about all allergies and “off-limit foods” – When dropping your child off, let the host know if she has any allergies. (Be sure you leave an EpiPen® if your child is allergic to bee stings). Inform the host of your child’s usual appetite and routine. If your child is younger than five years of age, remind your host that your child should not be given any foods that are considered choking hazards (example: grapes and nuts). In addition, if you don’t usually give your child sweets in the afternoon, ask your host to refrain from handing out snacks to avoid a sugar high at pick up time. Every parent has different rules and might not be aware of how certain foods affect different children.
Travel safely – If your plans include a trip to the park, mall, bowling alley or other venue, be sure your guest’s car seat is properly installed in your car. As every car seat is different, ask the child’s parent to help secure it in your car. It’s also wise to ask for a recent photo of the child to keep with you in case she is lost while you are out.
Pack the essentials – If the play date will include riding toys, like bikes and scooters, be sure to bring along a helmet. Swim parties should always be carefully supervised and all children should wear flotation devices.
Don’t be afraid to ask about guns in the home - According to the Safe Kids Campaign, most children are killed or kill other children while playing with handguns found in their homes or the homes of family or friends. Don’t be embarrassed or too polite to ask if the host has a gun in the home.
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Household Hazards
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Children see adults handling common household hazards all the time. While it is often cute to see our little ones play “house,” it’s important to make sure they aren’t in contact with harmful products. This is especially true with common household products that may look or smell enticing but are actually dangerous poisons.
Hazard: Toiletries and Drugs
According to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA), the leading cause of children’s deaths from poisoning is vitamin pills with iron. Children can die from swallowing as few as five of these pills. Common toiletry items such as perfume, mouthwash, and antibacterial gel are equally dangerous. All contain alcohol and, if ingested by a child, can lead to seizures, coma, or death.
Other potential poisons include:
- Mouthwash
- Decongestants
- Nail polish and nail polish remover
- Perfume
- Hairspray
- Diet pill stimulants
- Prescription medications
Secure Solution – Be sure to store all medications and toiletries in their original containers and check that child resistant caps are put on properly immediately after use. Keep all of these items in locked cabinets. Storing these items in high cabinets is not enough as children can climb up to reach them. Remember that caps on medication and toiletries are only child resistant – not child proof!
Hazard: Cleaners and Insecticides
While many people recognize that ingesting household cleaning products can be toxic, they don’t necessarily recognize that poisons can be delivered in many ways. For example, the chemicals in bug sprays and insecticides can be absorbed through the skin or inhaled and affect the nervous system, making it difficult to breathe. Toxic gases can be created when common items are mixed. When bleach is mixed with ammonia a dangerous vapor is formed. One of the leading causes of poisoning deaths in children are hydrocarbons which are found in furniture polish, paint thinner, gasoline, and kerosene. Common cleaners such as toilet bowl cleaner and oven cleaner can cause serious chemical burns as well.
Secure Solution – Cleaning products should never be stored in the house. Instead, keep them in a locked cabinet in the garage where it is more difficult for children to access. Be sure all cleaning items are kept in their original containers so that in the event of a poisoning all pertinent information is available. If these items are stored in other containers, such as empty bottles or jars, children might not recognize that they are toxic products.
Know your plants – Keep in mind that many plants around the home can be poisonous if ingested. These include:
- Irises
- Lilly-of-the-Valley
- Oleander
- Christmas Rose
It is advised that you remove these plants from your home.
Always be prepared. No matter how careful you are, accidental poisoning can still occur and it is important to be prepared. If your child seems sleepy, is unable to focus, has burn marks around his mouth, or you detect a strange smell on his breath, call the National Poison Control Center immediately at 1-800-222-1222. When you call, have the toxic item with you to describe the product and its contents.
Note: In the past, the American Academy of Pediatrics had recommended keeping syrup of ipecac on hand to induce vomiting as a method for dealing with poison ingestion. This policy has changed and it is advised that parents dispose of syrup of ipecac. Please call your Poison Control Center with any questions.
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Our Picks For Parents
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Need help picking out a baby monitor? Let us help you. Check out five of our monitors and pick the one that best suits the needs of your family.
Home Link Monitor System
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Perfect for the family that’s on the move around the home, our Safety 1st Home Link Monitor System helps you monitor your baby from up to three locations in your home at the same time. Put one in the nursery, one in the master bedroom, and one in the kitchen to keep tabs on your little one. Each monitor includes a rechargeable battery pack making them totally portable, and with a flexible range of up to 500 feet, you can really cover some serious ground!
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Crystal Clear Monitor
Want a clear connection to your baby anywhere, anytime? Then try out our Safety 1st Crystal Clear Monitor and see how portable it really is! Featuring two channels that help minimize interference, battery and power indicators to let you know when you’re running low, and a belt clip for complete portability, you can move around and rest assure that you’ll always have a clear connection to your baby.
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Available at: Wal-Mart or online at www.walmart.com
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Safe Glow 2 Receiver Monitoring System
Looking for a way for both you and your spouse to stay connected to your little one? Then check out our Safety 1st Safe Glow 2 Receiver Monitoring System, the monitoring system with a soothing glow that comforts your baby while you move around the home. Leave one in the master bedroom, and the other in the living room so you can monitor from two locations. Featuring superior clarity and extra-large sound lights, you’ll both be able to tell when your little one’s fussing or cooing for attention. Low battery indicators and a belt clip make it completely portable.
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Available at: Wal-Mart or online at www.walmart.com
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Illumination Monitor
Hate replacing batteries? Then try out our Safety 1st Safe Glow Rechargeable Monitor! The base plugs into your wall and the portable monitor is powered by a rechargeable battery pack so it never needs replacing! The glow light soothes your baby for 15 minutes and automatically turns off just when your little one’s drifting off into dreamland. Complete with all of our standard features like extra-large sound lights, low power indicators, and a belt clip for portability, you can sleep soundly knowing you’re investing in a sound and soothing monitor.
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Available at: Wal-Mart or online at www.walmart.com
Sight and Sound Assurance Monitor
Want to see your baby, even when you’re in a different room? Now you can with our Safety 1st Sight and Sound Assurance Monitor! The 5” black and white screen provides a clear view of your baby so you can make sure she’s sleeping peacefully. Simply place the pivoting camera unit near your baby’s crib and place your monitor base wherever you’re working. The portable audio receiver operates on battery power so you won’t trip over messy cords. It even has an auto night sensor that automatically adjusts the screen for clearer nighttime viewing.
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Available at: Wal-Mart or online at www.walmart.com
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A Note From Our Author
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Play Dates All Year Round!
Now that school has been in session for a few months my children have met new friends and play dates are in full swing. My daughter Kelsey has been watching Spencer’s play dates for a few years and now that she’s 4 years old, she has become immersed in her own social circle. My father can’t understand the concept of play dates and neither did my husband until we had children of our own. My dad believes that children should be able to just go outside and play with their friends without organizing a specific date and time. He’s of a different era; when children ran freely outside playing with their neighbors from the second they got off the bus till the street lamps went dark and moms called everyone inside for dinner. While this can still work in some neighborhoods, it just doesn’t work in ours. Between after school activities, doctor’s appointments, and homework, we’ve found that scheduling play time is the most effective way of making it happen.
And so, a master of coordinating play dates for my son, I agreed to test the waters with two play dates as I agreed to let Spencer and Kelsey each invite over one friend. The first thing I noticed is that boy and girl play dates are very different. My daughter is the little hostess, showing her friends around the house, arranging the activities, and deciding when it’s snack time and what they’ll munch on. My son, on the other hand, is much more “unstructured.” He might be playing in one room while his guest is somewhere else in the house entirely. Each boy goes their separate way as they become engrossed with each other’s toys. I’ve also come to realize that when one child has a play date it’s best to set up a play date for the other child as well. At first this seemed like even more work but I quickly realized that having a sibling intrude on a play date (“Mommy, he’s my friend, not hers!) ensured that there would be no peace at all.
I must admit, play dates stress me out. I worry that the kids won’t find enough to entertain themselves or will think our family is boring. I try to be the perpetually happy and perky mom when their friends come over. If ever I have a June Cleaver moment this is it! On this first joint play date, I went overboard – baking fresh cookies, making sure all their toys were nicely displayed and available – until I realized that none of this matters to the kids. They’re just thrilled and excited to spice up their everyday routines and explore playtime with a new friend.
I agree with my dad. Life was much easier when we could just run outside, see who was playing and stay there for hours without any coordination by our parents. But things are always changing and we update our social calendars – already filled with school dates, after-school practices, and doctor’s appointments – to accommodate play dates. Whether you’re a veteran “play date mom” or will be in the future, check out this month’s tips on setting up a play date without worry. Then, sit back and anxiously await the reciprocal invite.
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Meet Our Author
Let me introduce myself. My name is Alison Rhodes and I live in Wilton, CT with my husband, three children and two dogs. My first child, Connor, died of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) in 1997 – he would have been 9 years old. My son Spencer is 7, my daughter Kelsey just turned 3 and we just had a little girl, Hannah this November. Needless to say, my life is crazy sometimes! I’ve teamed up with Safety 1st to develop this newsletter because I wanted to provide parents with important information on child safety. After Connor’s death, infant and child safety became my passion. I might not be able to prevent SIDS but if I can help prevent one childhood accident I’ve done something in honor of him.
When Kelsey turned three (she constantly reminds me that “she is a big girl now!”) we were able to remove some of the babyproofing items around our house such as the toilet locks and the baby gates. But now that our new daughter Hannah has arrived, it’s back to the drawing board. It’s amazing how quickly we forget all the things babies can get into when they start crawling! Check out this month’s articles to see what you might not have thought about. And the one thing I realize now as a “veteran mom” is to never put “to-do” items off until tomorrow, because tomorrow inevitably brings strep throat, extra homework or the trip to the store for the team uniform you forgot about. Since my husband Kenny and I are babyproofers you would think it would be easy to get everything done in time but it’s always the case of the shoemaker’s children. So, I’ve started giving him the ultimatum now that if he doesn’t get the gates back up he will be in charge of all diaper changes! I remember when I was pregnant with Connor – my baby registry included the layette, stroller, high chair and all of those beautiful blankets. But I never considered registering for the most important items – baby safety products. Wouldn’t it be great to have your entire house set up before the baby arrived, not just the nursery? So this time, after I buy Kelsey’s “big girl” furniture and set up the new nursery with her old furniture I’m going to have everything else in place as well.
Alison is the founder of Peek-a-Boo Babyproofing, a baby-safety company servicing Connecticut, New York and New Jersey. The company partners with parents to create a safer environment for infants and toddlers through education and installation of baby safety products. For additional baby safety tips visit their website at www.peekaboobabyproofing.com.
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CAR SEATS
Q: I’m ready to convert my car seat to a booster seat. Should I still use the tether strap with the booster seat?
A: No. The lap/shoulder belt of your vehicle should be used to belt in the child and the child restraint.
Q: If my child is still under 1 year of age, but meets the weight and height guidelines for a forward-facing car seat, can I go ahead and place my child in the forward-facing position?
A: No. Even if your child meets the weight and height guidelines for a forward-facing car seat the child should remain in a rear-facing car seat until at least 1 year of age.
Q: When I install my child’s car seat with the LATCH and tether should I still use the vehicle seat belt as well?
A: No. The latch and tether are designed for use instead of the vehicle seat belts.
Q: Where can I have my car seat checked to ensure it is installed properly?
A: Visit www.nhtsa.dot.gov to access the Child Passenger Safety Contact locator. Type in your zip code and you’ll receive contact information for a Child Safety Seat Inspection Station in your local area.
Q: What are the cleaning instructions for my child’s car seat?
A: The seat pad should be hand washed with warm, sudsy water, then rinsed and air-dried. The harness straps should be spot cleaned only, do not machine wash.
MONITORS
Q: How can I troubleshoot interference issues on my Safety 1st nursery monitor?
A: Other wireless products in your household may run on the same frequency as your monitor. Try unplugging anything in your home that could be creating the interference and then plug the monitor in for about a half hour so that a good connection is established. Once the monitor has established a good connection, you can begin plugging back in the other products in your home one at a time while checking to see if there is a particular product that is interfering with the monitor.
Q: Can I purchase additional transmitters for my monitor?
A: Safety 1st manufactures a variety of nursery monitors. Some are equipped to monitor one room while others are capable of monitoring two or even three rooms. Each nursery monitor is designed for use with a specified number of transmitters; therefore it’s not possible to add an additional transmitter to an existing product. Doing so could cause interference.
RIDE-ONS
Q: How long should I charge the battery for my Safety 1st Ride-On?
A: Always charge the battery for a FULL 24 HOURS the first time you use it. Always charge the battery for a FULL 16 HOURS after each use. Although the light indicator on the charger may be green, the battery may not be fully charged. Charge the battery once a month, even if you are not using the vehicle. Do not leave the battery on the charger for more than 30 HOURS.
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